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Hi peoples ! Want to share this for long time ady. So now here it is.
A new and creative way of telling The Christmas Story. Impressive. Read more HERE. God Bless you :)
引用 ：陳莉敏 QUEENIE blog
變心可以是一剎那的。
某人做了某件事，
觸碰了你某一個點，
你無法接受那一刻的傷害或侵犯，
你無法包容對方引爆的醜陋人性，
也許你還不夠愛對方。
一件事，一個動作，一句話，足已令你變心，令你不再崇拜對方。
變心也可以是漸進的、累積的、
譬如對方長期的猜疑，
長期無理取鬧，
長期侵犯你的私隱，
長期踐踏你的自尊，
或者一次又一次地欺騙你......
剛開始也許你還會傻傻地忍受，默默以愛包容。
可是愛是會被損耗的，
你會懷疑這段關係能否長久，
你會擔心繼續下去會不會浪費心機，蹉跎光陰，
你會失去再愛的動力了，因為你想省點油滋潤自己，
於是，變心就這樣發生了。
當然，變心的誘因有太多太多。
有時候對方對自己太好，太千依百順，十全忠誠也無法抓住你的心......
若對方不求進步，不懂上進，
又或者對方在各方面與你的距離愈來愈遠......
你會不知不覺嫌棄對方......
心會變皆因心儀的藥力退了。
所以女人若想抓著男人的心。
"控制對方" 這招是行不通的，
做一個更棒的女人，天天求進步才是利己又「利愛」的高招。
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很好的一篇文章，有经营一段爱情的确不容易。时间久了当然就要求进步，不论是感情，生活，想法或其他。 人生到了不同的阶段，的确需要进步，不能原地踏步。你。。。开始踏上你未来的第一步了吗 ？
The Peranakan retained most of their ethnic and religious origins (such as ancestor worship), but assimilated the language and culture of the Malays. The Nyonya’s clothing was identical to that of the native Malay’s: baju panjang (long dress), batik sarung (batik wrap-around skirt) and kerongsang (brooch). Beaded slippers called Kasut Manekwere a hand-made made with much skill and patience: strung, beaded and sewn onto canvas with tiny faceted glass beads from Bohemia (present-day Czech Republic). In modern times, glass beads from Japan are preferred. Traditional kasut manek design often have European floral subjects, with colors influenced by Peranakan porcelain and batik sarongs. They were made onto flats or bedroom slippers. But from the 1930s, modern shapes became popular and heels were added.
In Indonesia, the Peranakans develop their own Kebaya, most notably ‘kebaya encim’, and developed their own batik patterns, which incorporate symbols from China.
Nyonya Kebaya is a unique traditional ethnic clothes worn by the Straits Settlement Chinese ladies who are known as nyonyas. The Baba and Nyonya, even though originally are ethnic Chinese, adopt the way of dressing, some cultural practices and also local food in their daily lives.
The main difference of nyonya kebaya from other kebayas is that, the material used for the top is sheer. The material can be gauze cotton, voile or georgette. Since the top is made out of translucent material, it is necessary to wear an inner cotton camisole which is called "anak baju".
The top is embroidered with beautiful motifs with extra emphasize at the collar, the sleeves and the hem of the jacket. The motifs are usually hand-made. As with other craft, machine-made embroidery would not look as good as the hand-made ones.
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